Recently, a friend of mine has been posting some of her thoughts on what Motherhood means to her. It has gotten me thinking about what Motherhood means to me. Should I lead off with the tender moments, or maybe the grotesque? Perhaps I should start with the monotonous? or the unpredictable? the laughter? the tears? Where to begin? Pondering on that question brings me to my first thought:
Motherhood is a whirlwind often going from one extreme to another(and sometimes back again) within seconds.
Motherhood is snuggling a sick child, feeling so much love, and then having that child throw up all over you. Motherhood is bravely snuggling the child again and having them say, "Mom, you make me feel better."
Motherhood is making perfectly rational statements and then realizing that you have used words that have no business going together in this world or the world to come. For example, "Why is there mayonnaise on the vacuum cleaner?" "If I catch you eating Jello powder in bed one more time..." or my personal favorite, "Who put toothpaste on the cat?"
Motherhood is reading Dr Suess so many times that you find yourself speaking in rhymes.
Motherhood is the tragic day that your children don't want to read Dr Suess anymore.
Motherhood is talking to your old friends, with whom you used to have important conversations about boys and evil math teachers, and discussing which PBS shows are educational and which are just annoying.
Motherhood is trying to come up with words to use instead of "why". You may be wondering to what point and purpose Katie is trying to stop using "why". A few conversations with my 3 year old should clear up any questions on that issue.
Motherhood is .......having to take a break from your blog because someone wants to 'nuggle you.
Motherhood is preparing to yell because you tripped on a pair of shoes, only to discover that they are your shoes.
Motherhood is knowing the fastest way to the bathroom in any given place. (this one actually starts during pregnancy, it just never goes away)
Motherhood is a laundry cup full of dandelions because the children know that you love yellow flowers.
Motherhood is discovering a great series of books with your children.
Motherhood is wondering why you have to have the same conversations at least three or four times per week.
Motherhood is reliving your childhood, and not in a good way, and realizing that you don't have any more solutions to give your child than you had for yourself.
Motherhood is reliving your childhood in the best ways and discovering the joy of discovering.
Motherhood is trying to put thought into things that you do automatically in an effort to teach your children how to do them.
Motherhood is discovering the adventure in things. For example: The sprinklers you drove by that were crossing to form an X must indicate the location of buried treasure. Grocery stores are great places to play spies. A mess-monster that is threatening the castle is more likely to be cleaned up than a dirty family room.
Motherhood is thinking that if you hear "What if..." one more time you'll be driven into the assylum.
Motherhood is swelling with pride at preschool graduations.
Motherhood is packing a suitcase for a trip to the grocery store.
Motherhood is shouting, "Will you please stop making all of that noise?!"
Motherhood is seeing the boy that you dated and fell in love with walking down the hall with a child on his back and one on each leg and really knowing what love is.
Motherhood is tucking sleepy heads into bed with rituals that belong to each child and then sneaking back for one last kiss.
Motherhood is never knowing whether you should scold, cry, or laugh out loud.
Motherhood is the relief on my readers faces as I cut my thoughts off to go be a Mother.